Tuesday, November 17, 2009
I hate reading about how people classify their friends. About how this bunch makes so much difference in their life, just because they made their day a few times. I don't know what's your definition of friends. Are they people who come crawling back to you in times of need? Or are they people who stick by you, even through their ups and downs?
Some people, just tend to have the mindset that, i have a big social circle, it doesn't matter if i lose one or two friends. They don't make much of a difference anyway. Till when is that circle gonna stay strong and tight? Till your old and wrinkly? Pfft, i doubt so. I can bet my finger for that.
I envy those who are neutral about friends. They don't have best friends, and neither do they have enemies. Live life so easily. But everyone's living with the perception that when you don't have friends, your an effing loner who is so damn loser. Conformity. Yes, conformed by the society. Life is so full of obstacles, so full of flaw, that's why famous people even invented quotes about how you should learn how to get back up when you fall lalaladida.
Sigh, but sometimes i wonder. If problems never occur, will you be able to learn from your mistakes, learn how to improve yourself? Yes, there's always two sides to a coin.
I am disgusted by you. I really am. I am slowly observing, how you are chucking others aside, as and when you want.
I am watching.